Written by Suraj Shah. Inspired by greatness.
What if you were to lead your life with an underlying feeling that all situations you encounter are optimal?
It turns out that every single thing you face in life, no matter how demanding it may be, is actually conducive to you leading a calm and purposeful life.
The pessimistic path of loss
When you lose someone close, it can feel like your own life energy has been sucked out of you.
Suddenly it feels as though the world is collapsing around you and you’re falling apart along with it.
Wherever you look, all you notice is pain, hardship, struggle, darkness.
All you can see is negativity, which somehow makes sense to you so you hold onto it with all your strength. Down this path, slowly but surely, you take on the life of a pessimist.
And then you go downhill. You lose interest in your work, you push away others who love you so dearly, and your health suffers.
But the life of an optimist – well that’s a whole different way of living.
The definition of optimism is:
“Optimism is a mental attitude or world view that interprets situations and events as being best (optimised), meaning that in some way for factors that may not be fully comprehended, the present moment is in an optimum state.”
Embracing optimism brings about:
- Better relationships – focusing on fulfilling our duty towards those close to us.
- Purposeful work – doing the daily work that matters the most, bringing about fulfilment and joy.
Great health – the vitality to do the work we need to do, for the people who we need to care for.
Peace of mind – being content in the moment and enjoying the serenity that this contentment brings.
Even when some of these may come up a little short (because life is not necessarily plain sailing and there will be hiccups along the way), you will find yourself able to calmly endure whatever life throws your way by seeing the opportunity in the circumstance.
Leading an optimal life
So what does it take to lead a life of optimism?
- Look at the bright side of life: By taking your boundless inner energy and shining it onto all that you perceive, you will be able to see the opportunity in a previously gloomy situation. Acting on that opportunity can transform your entire life. Looking at the brighter side means you’re leading an optimistic life.
Live with equanimity: All situations that happen in your life, take place because they were meant to. Such is the nature of the world within which we live. All things that come will eventually inevitably go. Such is the way of this world. So to be able to understand that that’s how life is, to calmly accept the reality of our world, is a way to let go of the emotional ups and downs that often arise from witnessing change. Living with equanimity means you’re leading an optimistic life.
Look for the beauty in life: The 109 year old Holocaust survivor Alice Herz-Sommer was asked in an interview about the secret to feeling good. Her response was: “Optimism… and looking for the good. Life is beautiful. You have to be thankful that we are living… Wherever you look is beauty.” Looking for beauty means you’re leading an optimistic life.
Live with awareness: Life isn’t rosy (a phrase often used by pessimists!), but life is real. Go about life with your eyes wide open. Stay vigilant, prepare for your adventures and protect yourself from harm. As the interview came to a close, Alice uttered “I know about the bad things, but I look for the good things.” You don’t need to actively go out looking for trouble or negativity – just be aware that this is a life of struggle and you will face many challenges, but within it is also an opportunity for greatness. Seek out the greatness of what life has to offer. Living with awareness means you’re leading an optimistic life.
I urge you to watch this extract of Alice’s interview (1m22s video) so you can hear the congruency in her voice and see the radiance on her face. You’ll agree that she is a true model for leading an optimal life.
A special mention for my friend Menka whose reason for optimism is that every experience is an opportunity to build awareness. Thank you, Menka, for transforming my mundane cliché’d understanding of “optimism” into an empowering way of life.
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YES, YES, YES!! Thank you for putting into words, what I’ve been very fortunate to be experiencing and understanding for the first time during these past few weeks. I wish more people would read this, and internalize it! 🙂 have a wonderful day!
Rustic – I only just saw and approved your comment today. Apologies for the massive delay.
Tell me about what you’ve been experiencing. How have the last six months since you read this post been for you?