Here one moment, gone the next

…p out of your life at the beat of a heart? When she got the news, my sister-in-law was clearly in shock. She wouldn’t be seeing her uncle in this life ever again. When she visits India next, he won’t be there. When she goes to his house, he won’t be there. When she picks up the phone to give him a call, he won’t be there. Coming together, falling apart In the timeless Jain tradition, we understand that when two people come together and fall apart,…

The Great Storm 30 years on: Surfacing trapped memories from childhood

…am, observing these memories, these fond memories of my youth, arising and passing, arising and passing. I observe the seemingly real protection of our parents, the subsequent realisation that there is no-one in this world who can ever truly provide protection, and the journey taken to identify and embrace the one place where solace, then calm, then stillness and then joy is progressively uncovered. In the midst of the storm, it is this place that…

Deep inner calm

…fe is to cultivate that deep inner calm, so that there is zero turbulence (free from attraction, desire, aversion, hatred, sorrow, etc.) in the most troublesome of moments in life, including at the time of death. As it is currently Paryushan in the Jain calendar – eight days of introspection, contemplation, repentance and forgiveness – we have the opportunity to look deep within and let go of the remorse of unfulfilled desires and harboured resent…