…we become frustrated and spiteful. Attachments, bad. Detached, expectation-free love, good. What attachment-free relationships look like Attachment-free relationships are magical. Here’s how they look: A person arrives in your life at just the right time. You feel blessed to have their positive presence. All engagements and interactions with them are filled with love. You care for them during life’s difficulties, but have no expectation of anythi…
…long that particular lifespan would be. It is appropriate because that life-span-determining karma had arisen at the time of that person’s conception and had come to an end at the end of their life. We can’t stop someone from getting ill, nor can we stop them from dying. We can’t extract them from what they are experiencing, but we can offer strength through our love and support and practical help. Everything that happens is good My grandma also u…
…t doesn’t mean sit back and do nothing – we need to deal with the situation appropriately. But while dealing with it, remain calm and let the matter gradually pass. No-one can truly take away our pain, nor can we truly alleviate anyone’s suffering. However, our compassionate hearts give us an opportunity to reach out to another. When you see someone suffering, you can help them out practically and emotionally, all the while knowing that in all hon…